3 ages of special development of children, parents DO NOT use whip to teach
The physiological development of children in these 3 years is extremely special.
"Love for the whip" is the thought of teaching parents of many parents. However, many people are unaware that hitting their children will leave unpredictable consequences on their health and psychology in the future. Therefore, when children are stubborn and disobedient, parents should look for more effective ways to teach their children than to whip, especially when they are in the three following ages.
Under 2 years old
Children under 2 years old really have not thought much, almost all actions are instinctive. Because the child does not understand, the parents have scolded and useless. Even punishing children at this stage is easy to affect the psychological and physiological development of the baby.
Many children because their parents "sharpened with a whip" so early that they were born psychologically obsessed, did not dare to trust and close to their parents. In addition, this is also when the bodies of young children, weak, even though they know their parents can not hurt their children, it is impossible to avoid situations where parents accidentally hit and cause children to be physically injured, affecting health.
From 6-9 years old
When children are 6 years old and start going to school, they will feel that they are "adults" and want to get out of the family's management to decide for themselves. With that, children also begin to form their own self-esteem, not wanting to be hurt. During this sensitive time, parents often hit their children will have two negative cases occur. One is that you will become timid, timid, more serious than being separate from the outside world, even mentally. Second, the child will form a violent personality, become stubborn, the more forbidden parents do.
From 12-15 years old
Children in puberty that the so-called "bad nursing" age often have abnormal psychology, sensitivity and intense resistance. They also begin to consciously protect themselves both physically and mentally. When parents are forced to follow a pattern, or use whips to teach, they often react negatively, mildly argue back to their parents, stop eating, get angry, more serious then leave home and even lice think of suicide.
In fact, adolescents also have their own opinions, so instead of forcing children, parents can satisfy their desire to be an adult by regularly soliciting their opinions about common household affairs. ; learn to thank and apologize to your children; analyze for me to understand what is right and wrong but I absolutely should not repeat it many times.
Above are three years of age that parents should not move whip. Of course, that does not mean that when children are at another age, parents can freely spanking. Parents should learn and try to cultivate new, more effective educational methods instead of having to beat their children and then they themselves cannot feel more satisfied.
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